Goodmorning, good evening or Hello. I’m Mahjong-san.
「Love and like」
About couple relationship, this is famous and often heared topic. （In Japan, many youngers bother this.)
One day, I also thought about love and like.
And I came up with (found) one clear difference, so I would like to write about this.
Difference between love and like, is
「Want to have sexual relationshuip, strongly」 or 「Want to protect or help without sexual emotion」
- Simply like as “sex” and want to
- Want to do sex or just hug each other
Main point is “attracted sexually or not”.
If you think some one is “target of couple or sex”, you like he or she.
But not love, maybe.
And one of these may be applied…
- Like and not love
- Like and love
- Not like but love
Love is emotion like below without “like” emotion I said.
- You can wish his / her happiness truely
- You feel want to protect or help when help when he / she is pinch or crisis.
This feeling is simillar as emotion to family. (If you not don’t like family.)
And love each other is tend to keep long time because each other feel want to help and support.
You and target don’t know each otehr, love will not be occur.
However if you feel ”love” on first meeting, this may be destiny.
Deal with important if you find Person love each other
No superiority on like and love.
Some love maybe end soon, but some like maybe keep long time.
But commonly, love keep longer than like (relationship is stronger)
So, deal with importantly if you find lover each other.
He/ She is engel, people seldom feel want to help you except fampily.
Like is important also before love
Like is also important.
Through feel “like emtion”, you can experience couple relationship and relathinship except stakeholder.
You will not tell your emotion smoothly if you luck of like experience.
Ideal is experience many and long like / couple, and finally find true love.
Both love and line emotion is important. We can’t decide speriority.
Someone feel love firstly, but someone struggle to like person and finally find love, or someone enjoy like relationship deeply.
Of course, some reader feel my idea is not right.
I wish you reconsider difference between like and love.
See you, best regard.